You know your kitty loves you, but you might only sometimes pick up on some of the ways she shows her feelings.
After all, your cat cannot…
But your cat can…
Sometimes called "the butterfly kiss" of the cat world, a slow blink is just what it sounds like — that magical moment when your cat closes his eyes, holds still for a second, and then opens them again. Sometimes, a cat's slow blink resembles a series of half-blinks followed by half-opened eyes.
What's so special about a cat's slow blink? It's much more than a sleepy gesture or funny cat quirk. A cat's slow blink holds especially significant meaning for its humans. Remember that in the wild, cats are both predators and prey. Anytime the animal's eyes are closed, it can't spot potential threats nearby. It's at risk. Vulnerable.
When you're present, and your cat makes himself vulnerable by closing his eyes — even for a half-second — you have officially made it inside your pet's circle of trust. It's the universal feline language of love, and if you want to better communicate with your cat, it's essential to understand your cat's blinks.
Although cats have been stereotyped by popular culture as aloof animals, the loners of the pet population, science disagrees. These creatures have the same capacity for attachment as their canine counterparts, with more elegance and subtlety.
No matter what you might have heard, cats love their people. They turn to us when they're distressed, butt us with their heads, hold up their tails in our presence, snuggle on the sofa, and even confidently expose their bellies when we're near (don't touch, though).
And yes, they slow blink.
Where did all this cat-to-human communication come from?
Science holds the answer.
Cats began as solitary hunters who prowled for small rodents at dawn and again at dusk. About 10,000 years ago, farmers in the fertile crescent (and probably China and Egypt) noticed that cats made terrific allies in the war on mice and birds. Cats became valuable; before long, they were sleeping by the hearth, and the family was sharing tidbits of food with them.
As cats transitioned from wild creatures into valuable farm animals and finally to family pets, they developed new relational skills. In order to thrive, they had to start noticing their humans' faces and learning to read social cues. Cats discovered the difference between safe and unsafe situations in a human-centered environment. In a way, they learned our unspoken language.
And they learned to talk back to us in theirs.
This form of communication goes two ways. Speaking cat fluently involves learning to slow blink yourself. In controlled experiments, cats show unmistakable signs of emotional connection when their owners slowly blink back at them. The animals were also more likely to slow blink at the humans if the people slow blinked at them first.
Cats are actually attentive students of human behavior and mirror what they perceive from us. Hence, if we show trust, so do they. Bond with your cat the proven way. Look at them steadily, close your eyes slowly, keep them shut tight for a moment, and then open them. Your cat will understand you perfectly.
When you slow blink at your cat, you may notice her look away afterward. A cat looking away after a slow blink does not indicate distrust or disinterest. On the contrary, it frequently signifies comfort and respect. This behavior is rooted in feline communication and social dynamics.
In the feline world, direct eye contact can be perceived as a threat or a challenge. By looking away, your cat demonstrates that it feels safe and secure with you. This action can also show that it respects your space and is not attempting to dominate or confront you.
Additionally, looking away can be a natural behavior for cats, reflecting their alertness and curiosity. Cats are naturally cautious creatures; even in moments of relaxation, they remain vigilant about their surroundings. Thus, after a slow blink, your cat might look away to scan the environment for any potential changes or threats quickly.
When your cat looks away after a slow blink, it communicates trust, respect, and a balanced awareness of its environment. Understanding this behavior helps deepen the bond between you and your feline companion.
We know that cats consider direct stares to be hostile. And we know they generally slow blink when they feel safe. A cat's slow blinking doesn't always communicate trust or affection, though. That's because what looks like a slow blink is actually a squint, which generally means your pet is experiencing pain, discomfort, or injury.
A squint or painful slow blink can mean:
Why does my cat slow blink at me? The main reason is that cats love their humans. If your cat is squirting or showing any signs of optical trauma or disease, however, you should consult with your cat-friendly vet.
No matter what pop culture says, science backs up what pet lovers know instinctively: Cats like people. They just have funny ways of showing it sometimes. A genuine slow blink is one of the most original, fun, and charming ways our pets communicate their trust, affection, and love for us.
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