If you’re looking for a kitty at your local shelter and are not sure how much human interaction it may have had, sit for a time with the felines to see if any respond positively to your presence. On the other hand, if you’ve got a kitty already at home that isn’t a lap sitter, you can try these tricks to help them become more comfortable with snuggling:
Spend time with your kitty to pick up on personality traits. Interacting with your cat during playtime helps you better understand him and creates a positive experience between the two of you. If your cat loves to play and you provide him plenty of opportunities for entertaining activities, he’ll be comfortable approaching you for more pleasant encounters, including possibly climbing into your lap.
Never force your cat to sit in your lap. Scooping him up and holding him down will erode any trust he might have in you and create a fear that compels him to retreat. Any hope of coaxing him back could be seriously dashed at the moment you try to force him to stay. Cats aren’t keen on being confined and restricted.
Let your cat come to you. Drape a soft, cuddly blanket across your lap as an open invitation. Cats love to curl up on soft surfaces, and a cozy blanket may be just the thing that beckons your furry friend to come and linger.
Be sure your lap is welcoming and safe. Avoid cluttering your lap with a remote control that could trigger a sound on the TV or with a cell phone that might beep or vibrate. These items could scare your cat and compromise any future lap-sitting opportunities. Cats tend to recall frightening moments so ensure your lap is a secure place to curl up and snooze.
Use treats as positive reinforcement. Start incrementally with a treat at your feet. If your kitty responds, try a treat next to you on the sofa until you work up to your lap. Build trust, but avoid reaching out to your cat even if she finally reaches your lap. You want to be sure she comes around on her terms even while rewarding her with a treat.
Make lap time pleasant. Avoid placing your cat in your lap to clip her nails or administer medications. If she associates lap time with an unpleasant experience, she won’t likely be interested in sitting with you in the future.
Convincing your cat to snuggle could be a challenge. Some cats might never be lap sitters. They may just be content to sit alongside you. And that’s OK. Cats have other ways to show their affection for you such as head bunting, curling around your legs, licking you, and greeting you at the door. Savor those moments instead. 🐈
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