Is your cat refusing to use the litter box or sparring with your other kitties? There's an underlying reason why she's acting out. Cats are designed to live in matrilineal groups.
Put simply, once a female has a kitten, other related females will pitch in to take care of it. Over time, the group stabilizes. Separated from her group, a cat loses her cat-to-cat connection.
It’s enough to give her pretty intense anxiety. How does anxiety manifest itself in the kitty world? Acting out, of course!Your cat may spray, refuse to potty where she's told, and even become combative.
We recommend these strategies for helping an anxious cat:
Allow plenty of personal space.
If communal play time isn't going as planned, your cat may be telling you it needs space to call its own. Dedicate a separate area for each cat to relax, play, and be comforted in. This might be a favorite reading chair or even a warm spot on the floor where the sunbeams come in through the windows. Stock it with her favorite toys at a height she can reach.
Even with peaceful space for each cat, you might still end up with urine on your carpet or favorite piece of furniture. So what gives? If you've ruled out a medical problem such asfeline urinary incontinence, you may have a behavioral issue.
The easiest remedy? Invest in more litter boxes and make them readily accessible. If they're all in a row in the basement, even the bravest cat may not venture down there. Rather, space litter boxes out around your house until you find the spots your cats prefer. If they still refuse to use the litter box, consider switching up the material, changing thebox type, or even adding somelitter box accessories.
While making your home pet-friendly for more than one cat can be time consuming, most pet owners agree it's more than worth it. By taking the time to understand your cats' needs, then responding to them with patience and flexibility, you'll be well on your way toward the blissful cuddle time you want.
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